It’s truer than you know. They think with their penises. They ogle at your breasts and ‘check out’ your figure. No, not just the overtly cheap guys who you encounter in the streets everyday. I would say they are just more honest about it.
Watch out. It could be anyone. Anyone with a penis. Many of your acquaintances, maybe family members in some cases and even teachers. And the old man who seems to be from a ‘good family’ and probably has grandchildren is not as pure or trustworthy as you may think. In fact the older they get, the more likely they are to put these thoughts into action. And isn’t it true that you would feel even less comfortable admitting abuse from them than someone who would be ‘command more respect’.
Sometimes, to your horror, you find that your own male friends talk like that when they are with other guys. They discuss ‘boob sizes’, ‘cleavages’, and what not. Do you even realise they can’t see past your physical form? Do we ever discuss penis sizes? For god’s sake, do we even look there?
No. Don’t be scared. Be disgusted or angry. If women were in control, I believe most men would have serious injuries to their thinking organ. Many probably would not even be able to have sex anymore. This would indeed be good for the population problem.
This patriarchal society where women have to dress according to the corruption and filth in the minds of males needs some changes. Why do, I seriously wonder, some women go to the trouble of wearing heels (bad for the back), and choking tops to get such bastards to notice them? If it’s out of pride in your own beauty, go ahead, but do question yourself about whether or not it has anything to do with males.
Have you ever noticed that most swear words are demeaning to women? It’s bitch. And son of a bitch. Why is there no male equivalent? Like, what do we call men who have the sexual morals of a ‘slut’? A woman magnet? Why is that not given the same filthy connotation as the word ‘slut’? Yes, sometimes the word dog, cur, jigilo(spelling, anyone?) are used but listen around and observe their rarity.
And though the saying goes, ‘you can’t live with them, you can’t live without them’, I think a woman is perfectly capable of living without them. But we are conditioned to believe that we can’t. If you have the education to make a living, enough friends and other family, why men? Oh that’s right. For sex. I understand. That will be their only purpose to us.
And I doubt they have a problem with being seen that way. After all they are more obsessed with it than women. If only they could be honest about that. That they are sex objects. Not us.
All these men who think of sex with every decent looking girl they see should be trapped in a prostitutes’ house till they are so sick of sex or they’re bankrupt spending on them. Though it might sound like a treat but they will not have a choice of coming out till they will never feel like looking at a woman that way again. And the sex workers can mint money and better their lives. Maybe even enroll in a college.
Let me suggest a punishment for rapists. It’s similar to the degree of violence I would sentence a tree killer with. Strip him. Pour cold water on him and whip him for a while. Ten will do. Too mild? Wait. I’m not done. Drag him through the streets, still stripped and beat the drums to draw attention to him. Show the world that he’s a criminal. A shame to society. Especially show him to the people who believed in him. Humiliation and frustration should saturate his soul. Ashamed, he should be taken to a stake. (Like witches were in the medieval times). His crime should be announced and he should be castrated. His genitals thrown in a rubbish dump full of worms. Let him watch it being consumed. And if the girl was a minor or disabled (physically or mentally), burn him alive.
Anything less than a rape can be given moderations of this. Let other men watch and fear. For, they should live in fear if they can’t respect us. But the ones pure at heart will have nothing to fear. I know some of them too. Which is why there is a * next to ‘All’ in the title. This post won’t offend anyone who has done nothing wrong. It’s a bit bold I agree. And so violent that on re-reading I too will feel disgusted. But idealism and being a softy be damned. People are best ruled by fear. Not love. No matter how hard you try.
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don't agree with you. your mode of punishment may be greeted as acceptable by some people who share the same frame of mind but not by others. as for all men thinking with their members...don't agree with you there as well. its a possible that a small minority of women might not think of such ideas but its also possible that alot of them might look at the place you think they don't and discuss it. hell, women might discuss more stuff than men. they seem quite able to as well.
you might have to define pure of heart because many would argue that although they do talk about the stuff you despise, they are still clean in the heart. you've got a problem in your write-up, its generalization.
this was a reaction to a a series of incidents that i faced in the span of 3 days. it piled up and heres proof of the violence. apologies for the foul language and the generalisations. douglas is right. but thats y its here on my blog and not in a news paper.
kudos, dear woman, for having made the biggest generalisation this side of reality. all men think with their penises, you say? they ogle at female breasts? great heavens, your ignorance knows no bounds. you are one of those rare unfortunate entities, perhaps, that has only known such men all her life. Janis Joplin was one, but you will excuse me if i don't compare.
Has it not struck you, O enlightened one, that some women dress in such painful ways because they just might be horny too? All i can say to this: Speak for yourself.
The most utilised swearword, as you call them, is the word 'fuck'(Pronunciation:'fək'), and you seem to have very interestingly missed that one out. Here's another one for you: Bastard. If it has anything to do with women-bashing, sue me.
Every, or almost every, straight or gay man thinks of sex more often than not; we are built that way. The point is the self-restraint that most men have not to go around humping everything they see.
As to your ''punishment'' for rapists,(which, thanks to the world in general being governed by reasonably reasonable people, will never happen) i have nothing to say; we all live in different worlds, and i hope to god our orbits do not cross.
What is with this pure-of-heart shit. you have the temerity to assume that the world is made up of people who dwell in black and white? there are shades of gray, little one, there are truckloads of them.
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